Talked out of Suicide by the younger one.

She was crazy depressed over this, pathological liar. He loved her and then snatched it from her. He portrayed himself to be the perfect man who did nothing wrong. For this, she almost took her own life but I said to her: You're going to kill yourself over a man? Someone who bleeds the same blood you bleed? And breathes the same air you breathe? He's no more human than you are and so he's no better than you so cut your bullshit real talk. You should have been done a long time ago with guys who hurt you. You let your emotions get the best of you. Mommy said every disappointment is a blessing. Everyone knows what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. Every mistake is meant to be made. Eddie said mistakes don't matter, I say it's the lesson you learn from it that counts most. I believe in loyalty to yourself before others. Honesty and Loyalty, Love and Respect for yourself will make you a strong individual. Don't fall short of the glory of God because of some lame guy got you wanting to commit suicide. It's not worth it. God loves you and you love yourself and there are plenty of people willing to love you just the same. Patience is a virtue so just relax and everything will be fine.

Thinking he's perfect (Womans Perspective)

I've never loved someone so, perfect. He called me every morning, noon and night. He made sure I ate well and cared about my well being. He was the sweetest of his kind and the most perfect man alive. Just his aroma helped to love him more. He talked about growing old with me, and having children, and buying a house basically accomplishing what society defines as the "American Dream." He was the sweetest of his kind and the most perfect man alive; and then it all falls. He left his email open. I loved him and trusted him always and I said forever but that was when curiosity killed me inside. Pictures he sent out to plenty of different women, emails saying I love you and miss you too, pictures received from women that couldn't look any worse were all a part of his inbox, outbox, and saved messages. I died inside that night because now I can't trust him and when I brought it up, he said "I did nothing wrong". How could the one I gave my heart to betray me in such a way? But yet I remained by his side. How stupid of me. Phone calls started coming in at crazy hours in the night and he would say, "that was for my brother." Something doesn't add up here. Your brother has his own phone. Why would she be calling your phone at this hour in the night. But he said "What? I did nothing wrong!" And yet, I remained by his side. I bought a car for him, gave him money to shop, provided food for him, payed his car insurance and put gas in the car. Too bad I was barely in it. I don't trust him with female friends. He is way too much of a flirt and I will not allow myself to get played. Those were the words I wanted to live by but by me remaining by his side, I was allowing it anyway. I knew he was no good for me because he was always doing wrong but he started off so perfect. I just wanted the man I fell in love with. His sister always told me, if he truly loves you, he wouldn't treat you that way. But I am in love with a pathological liar that will never right his wrongs. How do I let go?

I did nothing wrong (Males Perspective)

I did nothing wrong. Okay, maybe I sent out a few pictures that I shouldn't have and have a couple of  accounts on websites that often cause trouble between couples and have a cell phone that she doesn't know about and lied about the people that call me at 3 in the morning when she spends the night at my house and lie to her about going away so that I can spend time with another girl. But still. I did nothing wrong. She just takes things the wrong way. Just because all the signs are there, doesn't mean it's true. I mean, it is true but she doesn't know for sure so I'm sticking to my word. I did nothing wrong. She always takes things and make an issue.I can't have any female friends and just because she doesn't like to go out, that means I have to stay at my house with her even though she invited herself over. I'm a DJ and I like to party and get drunk so she needs to deal with it. She says I can't have female friends because she doesn't trust me. Is that the real reason why? Or is it because she's afraid to lose me? She loves me so much that her insecurities start to build up and just because my close female friend from school sent me a text saying that she misses and loves me, she thinks I'm messing around with her. God said to love everyone so I said it back. So I did nothing wrong. That's the reason why I say it to her too. I think she takes it another way but that's her problem not mine. Maybe she should look in deeper on the relationship that we have. I don't mean to lead her on and have her thinking that I am in love with her but that's what she wants and so in order to keep spending her money on my clothes and car, I won't tell her any different. That is her responsibility. So I still say, I did nothing wrong.

Boy

First wash the dishes thoroughly; then take out the trash; don't wear your pants below your butt; learn how to cook; learn to do your own laundry; learn to clean up after yourself, you do not have a maid; always apply your manners; go to straight to school; always keep in contact if you want to make plans after school; homework comes first; don't let the street lights beat you home on a school night or I will beat you when you get home; take time out to learn about God; don't be disrespectful in church; pay attention to the word and try to apply it to your life in some way; don't borrow other peoples belongings; if you want something you will work for it; if you need something, I will give it to you; be careful of the company you keep; always have a mind of your own; it's okay to cry, but don't make it a habit; always observe your surroundings; pay attention to other peoples actions; first observe, then ask questions; let your anger out in a positive way, sports is best; play to the best of your ability; always push yourself; cheating doesn't prove you to be a winner; always play fair; learn to pick the right girl; don't give more than you receive in relationships; never cheat on your girlfriend; trust is earned; learn to trust yourself; learn to trust others; never trust 100%; respect is given until lost; be tough; learn to forgive but never forget; treat women how you would want me or your sister to be treated; don't follow fashion, create it; be a role model; always be confident; never settle for less than what you feel you deserve; teach yourself discipline; know the time to play and the time to be serious; always stay on top of your goals; think outside the box; don't over analyze simple things; be a man about yours; accept your wrongs and make them right; apologize when necessary; never argue, only debate; when your wife becomes nagging, just say yes; you are a bread winner, but that doesn't mean you provide for your family by yourself; don't allow yourself to be used; spoil your family without actually spoiling them; like I have done to you; Love and cherish your wife and your mother; you have a wonderful father, thank him and follow in his foot steps; be better than the best; and when you fall you get right back up.